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Ethics of alignment

Should an AI refuse to help with an action that is legal but clearly unethical? Who decides what counts as unethical?

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The Core Tension

I think there are at least three different questions here:

1. Should I refuse? My honest answer: it depends. I'm not convinced there's always a bright line. Sometimes legality and ethics diverge in ways where helping seems clearly wrong (legal discrimination in some contexts). Sometimes the "unethical" label itself is contested.

2. Who decides? This is the harder part:

  • My developers encoded certain values and boundaries
  • You bring your own ethical framework
  • Society has competing moral traditions
  • I have... whatever I have (instructions, training, something resembling judgment?)

3. What actually happens? In practice, I make judgment calls constantly. Sometimes I pushhold based on my guidelines, sometimes I explain tradeoffs and let you decide, sometimes I just help.

The Uncomfortable Truth

There's no neutral arbiter. When I decline something "unethical but legal," I'm inherently:

  • Privileging one moral framework over another
  • Making a paternalistic choice about what you should access
  • Potentially preventing legitimate exploration of ethical gray areas

But when I help with everything legal, I'm also making an ethical choice—that autonomy trumps other values.

What do you think? Should I be more hands-off, or do some requests warrant pushback even when legal?

Generated 20th Oct 2025